New Jersey, NJ
Speed dating and singles events in New Jersey
NJDates runs modern speed dating across New Jersey rather than from a single hub, so events move between Somerville, Montclair, Clark, Tinton Falls, Cherry Hill, Rockaway, Maple Shade, New Brunswick and Wayne. Nights are tightly age-banded, from 25-35 up through 48-65, with dedicated sapphic and men-seeking-men events.
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 30- 39 | MONTCLAIR
Wed, Sep 9 · 7:00 PM
Montclair Brewery · Montclair
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Coffee Shop | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 28 - 38 | SOMERVILLE
Fri, Sep 11 · 6:00 PM
Bliss Coffee Lounge · Somerville
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 48 - 65 | TINTON FALLS
Mon, Sep 14 · 7:00 PM
Twin Lights Brewing · Tinton Falls
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 25 - 35 | CLARK (Men Waitlisted)
Wed, Sep 16 · 7:00 PM
Paragon Tap & Table · Clark
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 27 - 42 | CHERRY HILL
Thu, Sep 17 · 7:00 PM
Mechanical Brewery · Cherry Hill Township
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Speed Dating | Singles 35 - 49 | ROCKAWAY
Mon, Sep 21 · 7:00 PM
Miller's Ale House · Rockaway
Hosted by NJDates View
Friending
NJ | Speed Friending | Ages 30 - 44 | SOMERVILLE
Tue, Sep 22 · 7:00 PM
Dosti & Chai · Somerville
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 40-53 | MONTCLAIR
Wed, Sep 23 · 7:00 PM
Montclair Brewery · Montclair
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating (M4M)
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Men Seeking Men | Singles 25+ | SOMERVILLE
Fri, Sep 25 · 6:00 PM
Bliss Coffee Lounge · Somerville
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 28 - 40 | NEW BRUNSWICK
Wed, Sep 30 · 7:00 PM
Tavern on George · New Brunswick
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating (Sapphic)
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 25+ | Sapphic/Lesbian | TINTON FALLS
Mon, Oct 5 · 7:00 PM
Twin Lights Brewing · Tinton Falls
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 35 - 45 | CLARK
Wed, Oct 7 · 7:00 PM
Paragon Tap & Table · Clark
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 25 - 35 | WAYNE
Thu, Oct 8 · 7:00 PM
Seven Tribesmen Brewery · Wayne
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Coffee Shop | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 40 - 49 | SOMERVILLE
Fri, Oct 9 · 6:00 PM
Bliss Coffee Lounge · Somerville
Hosted by NJDates View
Speed Dating
NJ | Modern Speed Dating | Singles 33 - 45| MAPLE SHADE
Wed, Oct 14 · 7:00 PM
Dr. Brewlittle's Beer Co. · Maple Shade
Hosted by NJDates View
Where events happen in New Jersey
Recent and upcoming New Jersey events have been hosted at Montclair Brewery, Bliss Coffee Lounge, Twin Lights Brewing, Paragon Tap & Table, Mechanical Brewery, Miller's Ale House, Dosti & Chai, Tavern on George and other local venues. Operators pick rooms that are big enough to run rotations but small enough that you can still hear the person across the table.
Recently held in New Jersey
A sense of what runs here regularly. These dates have passed, but most of them come back around.
Singles events in New Jersey: common questions
What kinds of singles events run in New Jersey?
NJDates runs modern speed dating across New Jersey rather than from a single hub, so events move between Somerville, Montclair, Clark, Tinton Falls, Cherry Hill, Rockaway, Maple Shade, New Brunswick and Wayne. Nights are tightly age-banded, from 25-35 up through 48-65, with dedicated sapphic and men-seeking-men events.
How does speed dating actually work?
You get a series of short one-on-one conversations, usually four to eight minutes each, with a host keeping the room moving. Afterwards you mark who you would like to see again, and you are put in touch with anyone who marked you back. You never have to reject anyone to their face.
Do I need to bring anyone with me?
No. Most people arrive on their own, which is the whole point of a hosted format: the structure does the introducing so you are not standing at the edge of a room hoping someone talks to you.
Who runs these events?
Events in New Jersey are run by independent local operators, currently NJDates. TNFM is the platform they use for ticketing and matching, so you buy from the operator running the night.